Another New York City Sunday brunch favorite of mine is a place that, for another 25 days, you can call this restaurant Park Avenue Winter. Aside from being a great restaurant with superb service, it hosts a great concept: the menu, wine list, and whole decoration of the restaurant changes with the season. Recognized by the New York Times and New York Observer as one of the best new restaurants, Park Avenue Winter has returned to the Upper East Side of Manhattan.

The design team used Captain James Cook‘s explorative travels as a loose design reference. They looked at the regions he had visited in each of his major expeditions as a way of framing each season. Park Avenue Winter includes a refined interpretation of the season, adding details such as lacquered panel moldings, coffers with mismatched plaster rosettes, and vintage British military buttons and custom crystal and glass chandeliers. All of the polished architectural elements blend with more rustic items, such as elongated birch branches built into the lighting elements, raw leathers and white-washed woods. Winter pays homage in part to Cook’s travels in the Antarctic Circle, combined with a classic drawing room aesthetic. To fully celebrate the food and atmosphere of Winter, try out Park Avenue Winter’s Sunday brunch- before the season changes!

Best, Carlos

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Lake Tahoe is a popular vacation and recreation region settled between the border of California and Nevada. Tahoe is especially popular in the winter for activities that include world class skiing, snowmobiling and ice skating. Year round activities include shopping, gambling, eating and taking in the beautiful scenery, so you will always have something fun to do here! 

Feeling festive? Check out our featured Lake Tahoe Event

Mammoth is one of the top skiing and snowboarding destinations in the world. This resort town offers slopes at a variety of difficulty levels, so everyone can find something to do here. Getting to Mammoth is as easy as taking a short connecting flight from various major airports in cities nearby, and the town of Mammoth itself is quaint, cozy, and easy to navigate. The Mammoth Lakes are beautiful any time of year, and the views around town and in the National Park will take your breath away.

All you ski bears and bunnies can hit the slopes with our featured event 

In March, San Francisco is just on the cusp of the season change- or California’s version of it at least! With mild winter air and beautiful sunny skies, this city by the Bay is an especially great winter destination for the LGBT traveler. This city is booming with incredible restaurants and eateries so you can warm yourselves up from the inside out. There are also a number of great arts and film festivals happening in the city to check out.

Are you down to get frisky is Frisco? Check out our featured event 

For Lauderdale has notoriously beautiful weather, especially when the rest of the country is bundled up for winter. March is the best time to visit town, with low temperatures only in the 60’s. Rainy season in Florida doesn’t begin until the beginning of summer, so winter is actually an excellent time to travel to this Southeastern city. Between Fort Lauderdale and Miami which is not too far away, there is plenty to do in Florida this time of year!

Put on your proudest face and attend our featured event

Portland is a beautiful city all year round, but is especially nice as a coastal destination with relatively mild winters. This quirky urban playground has lots to offer even when the weather is a bit on the gloomy side. There is a lot of great art and creativity going on in this innovative town, with tons of incredible thinkers wracking their brains in the well-known bookshops and cafes around the city. 

Feeling a bit raunchy? Check out Portland's featured event 

Australia is known for its incredible summer-time surfing and beautifully warm weather during this time of year. Because of its location in the Southern hemisphere, March falls during Australia’s summer and is a great place to go to get away from the cold! To get down to the business of fabulous, check out Glamazon featuring Ru Paul happening at the beginning of the month in Sydney.

Oh Girl! Sydney's featured event is for all Ru Paul fans out there!

Snow Driving

When driving on snowy mountain roads, make sure to have snow chains on hand and ready to be installed – in many areas they are required. Also, cold weather deflates tires so make sure to fill them up before hitting the road. It is helpful to have rest-stops and alternative hotels planned out in case of road closures or weather-delays

Hydration

Even if the weather is cold, dehydration is absolutely something to be aware of and avoid, especially while engaging in winter sports. Be sure to get plenty of water in between ski and snowboarding runs, or even while being out and about in your winter town of choice!

Fly Non-Stop

Because of unexpected weather, plane flights can be delayed for pretty long amounts of time. Because of this, having multiple flights to get to your vacation destination can be problematic. In order to avoid missing your connecting flight, try to book direct flights or leave a good 2-3 hours as a cushion of time for layovers.

By February, I usually find myself in the mood for a little ‘pick-me-up’ vacation, and so I hopped on a plane and headed to the gay daddy Mecca that is Palm Springs, California.

Even beyond the beautiful and warm weather, there are so many reasons to love California. The tacos are delicious. The palm trees are innumerable. And, most recently, a federal appeals court ruled that California’s gay marriage ban (known as proposition 8) is unconstitutional. Though the marriage fight is far from over, it’s a sure step in the right direction.

During this year’s visit to Palm Springs, I decided to push my own boundaries and stay at a clothing optional resort called Escape. Palm Springs is, in fact, quite famous for the plethora of gay men’s nude resorts. Some are rather calm and tame, while others are very sexually charged. In the salsa bar of naked resorts, Escape would be considered quite mild.

Despite Escape’s friendly atmosphere and my proclivity toward nudism in the comfort of my own home, it’s another thing entirely to do it in front of an audience. In all my travels, adventures and even visits to nude beaches, I’ve yet to get fully naked in public. I just can’t get myself to do it.
Turns out, things were a bit different for me this year.

On my first day, I decided to go poolside in a red Speedo. Truth be told, the Speedo really didn’t leave much to the imagination; it’s was so ridiculously small that I might as well have been naked. But for me, like the recent ruling on Proposition 8, it was a step in the right direction. Hanging by the pool for an hour, I chatted with the other guests and soaked in some sun.

Later in the afternoon, I returned to my room. As I walked by the hallway mirror, I stopped to admire my newly acquired tan. It was only then that I realized, unbeknownst to me, that I had been experiencing a wardrobe malfunction. My left (beep), presumably for the entire time, had popped out of my Speedo. And it wasn’t just a little peek; it was literally hanging there—bright red and fully sunburned—for the entire world to see.

Oy vey.

- Davey

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2011 Official Give-Away Rules (the “Rules”)

NO PURCHASE NECESSARY TO ENTER OR WIN. A PURCHASE DOES NOT INCREASE YOUR CHANCES OF WINNING.

This Giveaway is sponsored by OO, Inc.having an address of 2658 Del Mar Heights Road, #425, Del Mar, California  92014, USA (the “Sponsor”).

ELIGIBILITY

This Give-Away (the “Give-Away”) is open to individuals who are legal residents of the fifty (50) United States or the District of Columbia and who are 21 years of age or older as of the date of entry. VOID IN ANY LOCATION WHERE PROHIBITED, RESTRICTED OR TAXED. Employees of the Sponsor, its affiliates, their advertising or promotional agencies, and those involved in the production, development, implementation of handling the Give-Away and their immediate family members (spouse, parents, siblings and children) and household members (whether related or not) of each such employee, are not eligible to participate in the Give-Away. By entering the Give-Away, you are confirming that you have legal capacity to enter the abovementioned and agree to these Rules (i.e. that you are of sufficient age and mental capacity and are entitled to be legally bound in contract).

THE GIVE-AWAY PERIOD

The Give-Away begins on February 19, 2012 at 12:00 am Central Time and ends April 1, 2012 at 11:00 am Central Time (the “Entry Period”).

HOW TO ENTER

To enter in the Give-Away you must register for the Gaytravel Newsletter on the website at  http://www.gaytravel.com (the “Website”) during the Entry Period, providing all the requested information, including the following:

a. full name
b. email address

c.c. birth date

d. phone number

(“Registration”).

Upon Registration, eligible entrants will automatically be entered into the Give-Away (the “Entry”).  Existing Gaytravel Newsletter subscribers may re-register for the Gaytravel Newsletter during the Entry Period to obtain an Entry.  All Entries must be received by April 1, 2012 at 11:00 am Central Time.  No other methods of entry will be accepted. Limit: one Entry per person and per email address.

In the event a dispute over the identify of an entrant, the natural person who holds title to the account for the email address submitted with the Entry shall be deemed the entrant. Proof of identity and title to the email account may be required. Use of a false email address, or an incorrect mail address will disqualify an entry.  BY ENTERING THIS GIVE-AWAY, YOU AGREE THAT ALL SUSPECTED FRAUDULENT OR IMPROPER ENTRIES WILL BE DISQUALIFIED BY SPONSOR AT ITS SOLE DISCRETION. 

Sponsor is not responsible for failed, incorrect, inaccurate, incomplete, lost, late, misdirected, illegible, mutilated, garbled or delayed Entries or other communications or other problems related to transfer or collection of Give-Away Entry information or other information.  Sponsor, in its sole discretion, reserves the right to disqualify any person who tampers with the entry process or the operation of the Give-Away, or who otherwise violates these rules.

Proof of submission is not proof of receipt.  Sponsor, in its sole discretion, reserves the right to disqualify any person who tampers with the entry process or the operation of the Give-Away, or who otherwise violates these rules. Sponsor reserves the right to make any investigation into the eligibility of an entrant and delay the award of any prize during the investigation for any period of time deemed necessary and pending the receipt of any and all information deemed necessary.  Sponsor’s decisions resulting from any such investigation shall be final and binding in all respects.  Give-Away is void where prohibited, restricted or taxed by law. All federal, state and local laws and regulations apply.

The Give-Away consists of an opportunity for you and a guest to attend 2012 Gay Ski Week in Aspen, Colorado, USA

PRIZE

There is one prize to be awarded on the basis of a random drawing among eligible entrants, as follows:
•Two (2) airline ticket vouchers for travel to 2012 Gay Wine Weekend, Sonoma CA with a value of up to $250.00 USD each; (ARV: $500)
•Two (2) nights hotel stay at a hotel located in Sonoma, CA (to be determined by Sponsor in Sponsor’s discretion at time of booking, includes room and tax only, based on double occupancy); (ARV: $398)
•Two (2) VIP Passes, which includes: 1 Winery tour, Twilight T-Dance VIP admission, Big Gay Wine Auction and Brunch. (ARV: $449)

Approximate Retail Value of Prize: One Thousand Three Hundred Fourty Seven Dollars ($1347).  Odds of winning depend on the number of eligible entries received during the Entry Period.  

Prize and components thereof are NOT transferrable.  Prize and prize components cannot be returned, substituted, or exchanged for cash or other items, except that Sponsor reserves the right to provide a substitute prize of approximately equal or greater value if the advertised prize or any component thereof becomes unavailable.  Prize details are at Sponsor's sole discretion.  Ground transportation, meals, in-room or other personal charges at lodging (e.g., mini-bar, movies), telephone calls, gratuities, incidentals, and all other expenses are not included.   Winner will be required to put down a credit card upon hotel check in. 

Winner must pick up Patron Passes, Lift Tickets, and Equipment Rentals in person at  Sponsor’s hospitality suite at the Limelight Hotel  between 8am-11am or between 3pm-6pm (local time) during Gay Ski Week from January 15 -19, 2012.  Winner may be required to show valid photo identification. 

Trip must be taken between June 15, 2012 – June 17, 2012.  Air Travel must be arranged no later than April 15, 2012.

One prize per person, per household, and per e-mail address. 

Please note the following additional conditions/restrictions:

1. Sponsor will award airline ticket vouchers for two people (winner and winner’s guest) to cover the cost of round-trip coach/economy class air transportation from an airport near winner’s residence (selected by Sponsor in Sponsor’s discretion) to Oakland, CA during Gay Wine Weekend, with a maximum value of $250.00 USD per voucher.   Ticketing is subject to flight availability at the time of ticketing in economy/coach class of service.  Winner and guest must travel and use prize together on the same itinerary.  If, in the sole judgment of Sponsor, air travel is not required due to winner’s proximity to Oakland, California, ground transportation may be substituted for this portion of the prize.   

2. Airline travel must be booked by a gaytravel.com representative and reservations must be completed by April, 15, 2012.   No cash value or refunds will be given to winner if winner is unable to travel on scheduled dates.  If airline ticket cost exceeds $250 per person, winner must pay the balance at the time of booking and by April 15, 2012.  Trip must be completed by June 17, 2012, or prize will be forfeited in its entirety.  Accommodations are subject to availability and certain restrictions, so Sponsor cannot guarantee prize will be available on the exact dates specified by winner.  Any extra nights’ stay and any additional costs associated with an extended stay are the sole responsibility of the winner and his or her guest.  Additional restrictions may apply. 

3. Airline vouchers are non-transferable and not redeemable for cash. Airline vouchers cannot be auctioned or bartered. If the airline tickets cost is less than $250 per person, the difference between $250 and the actual cost will NOT be provided to the winner and/or winner’s guest.   Ticket voucher validity cannot be extended.  Frequent flyer credit will not be provided for the flights.  NO STOPOVERS are allowed.

4. Winner’s guest must be 21 years of age or older at the time of travel.  Winner’s guest will be required to sign a Liability/Publicity Release to be received by Sponsor at least fourteen (14) days prior to travel or guest will not be able to accompany winner during the trip. 

5. Winner will be required to pay the applicable U.S. Customs/Department of Agriculture users' fee and any other airport surcharges/departure taxes. This charge will be determined at the time of ticketing. Income taxes, if any or any other applicable surcharges shall be the responsibility of the winner.

6.  Winner will be responsible for all other expenditures not specifically mentioned in these Rules. Travel and hotel component of prize must be taken by April 15, 2011 or the entire prize will become void and no amount of the prize, including any cash amount, will be awarded.

7. Winner acknowledges that the prize is awarded “as is” according to the terms & conditions set forth herein. The winner further acknowledges that the Sponsor has neither made, nor is in any manner responsible or liable for, any warranty, representation or guarantee, expressed or implied, in fact or in law, relative to a prize or regarding the use, value or enjoyment of the prize or any component thereof.

8. The prize will be awarded if properly claimed according to the Rules and if there are sufficient eligible entries.

9. Winner will release and indemnify Sponsor from any losses or damages whether by tort or civil in nature, arising from or related to the booking, use, misuse, or travel to or from or in connection with the Prize.

10.  The winner and his or her guest  will be responsible for obtaining travel insurance and travel papers, including passports and visas and, where necessary, for obtaining appropriate vaccinations and inoculations are in good order and are valid prior to and for the duration of the trip. It is strongly recommended that travelers take out adequate travel insurance.

11. Prizes are subject to the flight booking restrictions above. Sponsor assumes no responsibility for any cancelled, delayed, suspended or rescheduled events once any tickets have been issued in relation to the prize for any reason.

DRAWING

Winner will be selected in a random drawing on or about April 1, 2012 (“Drawing Date”) from all eligible entries received for the Give-Away.  The drawing will be conducted by Sponsor or its designee, the judge of the Give-Away, whose decisions are final and binding, at Sponsor’s address set forth in these Official Rules 444 South Cedros, Suite 165, Solana Beach, CA 92075.  Potential winner will be notified on or about the Drawing Date by an email sent to the email address specified in the entry, and will be asked to provide his or her full name, age and mailing address.  If potential winner cannot be contacted at this email address, is contacted and does not respond as directed within two (2) days of attempted notification, refuses the prize, is ineligible to accept the prize or does not otherwise comply with the Official Rules, the prize may be forfeited and awarded to an alternate winner. Potential winner may be required to complete and sign an Affidavit of Eligibility and, except where and as prohibited, a Liability Release and Publicity Release in the form provided by Sponsor within two (2) days of first attempted notification in order to claim the prize. Potential winners may be required to show proof of identification within two (2) days of first attempted notification, or the prize may be forfeited and awarded to an alternate winner. 

Sponsor is not responsible for email notifications that do not reach a potential winner due to Internet malfunction or the filtering of emails by "spam filters" or any other reason. Sponsor is not responsible for any failure to contact entrants, whether due to technical or human error, or for any errors in any Give-Away related material.
Limit one (1) prize per person, per email address, and per household.

The Sponsor reserves the right to terminate, cancel or modify the online entering procedure or disqualify any entrant if, in Sponsor's sole judgment, it determines that the integrity or fairness of the Give-Away has been, or could be, compromised or that the Give-Away is not capable of running as planned or fairly, including infection by computer virus, bugs, tampering, unauthorized intervention (hacking), fraud, technical failures, force majeure or any other cause. Should this Give-Away be terminated or cancelled prior to the end of the Period, the winner will be selected from all eligible, non-suspect entries received from Give-Away start to cancelation date.

GENERAL CONDITIONS

By participating in the Give-Away, you agree to be bound by these Official Rules (which may be amended or varied at any time by us with or without notice) and by our decisions, which are final in all matters relating to these Official Rules, the Give-Away, the drawing and/or the results and no correspondence or discussion shall be entered into. Any changes to these Rules will be posted on the Give-Away Website.

The Sponsor accepts no responsibility for any incorrect or inaccurate information and assumes no responsibility for any error, omission, interruption, deletion, defect, delay in operation or transmission, internet failure, theft or destruction or unauthorized access to entries and/or the Give-Away Website, entries lost or delayed, whether or not arising during operation or transmission as a result of server functions, virus, bugs or other causes outside its control (to the fullest extent permitted by applicable laws).

By entering this Give-Away, you agree to the use of your name, email address, postal address, photograph and other likeness, as well as your appearance at publicity events, without any additional compensation and as required by the Sponsor if you are declared a winner.  All other information provided to us by you will be subject to the terms and conditions of our Privacy Policy at: http://www.gaytravel.com. You may opt out of receiving messages from us by contacting general@gaytravel.com. You are not required to receive marketing messages from us to participate in this Give-Away.

Sponsor is not liable for any costs, claims, damages or loss whatsoever suffered by any person as a result of entering this Give-Away occasioned by any failure, however caused, in the fulfillment of the terms of this Give-Away.

These Giveaway Rules, the Give-Away, the Website, the Give-Away and any related advertising, will be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of the State of California  exclusive of conflicts of laws principles and any dispute arising out of or in connection with this Give-Away shall be subject to the exclusive jurisdiction of the courts of San Diego County in the State of California.  In addition, all federal, state and local laws and regulations apply. If any provision of the Give-Away shall be deemed to violate any federal, state or local law, regulation or ordinance, it shall be amended to conform to such law and all other provisions shall remain in full force and effect. If Sponsor is required by applicable federal, state or local law, regulation or ordinance, or by action of an administrative agency to cease offering the Give-Away in any jurisdiction, Sponsor reserves the right to (i) terminate the Give-Away in such jurisdiction in its entirety, and/or (ii) cancel and remove from participation in the Give-Away any and/or all entries from entrants residing in such jurisdiction, without penalty and without obligation to any entrants. Sponsor's failure to enforce any term of these Official Rules shall not constitute a waiver of that provision. 

Any and all disputes, claims and causes of action arising out of this Give-Away or the prizes awarded shall be resolved individually, without resort to any form of class action.  Any and all claims, judgments and awards shall be limited to actual out-of-pocket costs incurred, including costs associated with entering this Give-Away but in no event attorneys' fees; and entrant hereby waives all rights to claim punitive, incidental, and consequential damages and any other damages, other than for actual out-of-pocket expenses (collectively, “Special Damages”), and entrant waives all rights to claims Special Damages and any and all rights to have damages multiplied or otherwise increased. SOME JURISDICTIONS DO NOT ALLOW THE LIMITATIONS OR EXCLUSION OF LIABILITY FOR INCIDENTAL OR CONSEQUENTIAL DAMAGES, SO THE ABOVE MAY NOT APPLY TO YOU.

All taxes are winner’s responsibility and a 2011 Form 1099 will be issued to the winner of the Prize.

By entering this Give-Away, the entrant explicitly releases, discharges and holds harmless the Sponsor, the Administrator, their respective affiliates, and their respective shareholders, employees, directors, agents, successors and assigns, one and all, from any and all liability, actions, causes of action, damages, actual, incidental or consequential, claims and demands whatsoever in law or equity, including all “costs”, which she/he now has or may acquire, by reason of any personal injury, death, loss of or damage to property, or any reason, occurring during or arising out of or in connection with his/her participation in the Give-Away and the acceptance, use, misuse, or travel to or from or in connection with any prize or prize-related activity. By accepting the prize, winner waives the right to 1) assert as a cost of winning the prize any and all costs of verification and redemption, and 2) claim any liability (including legal and experts' fees and costs) which might arise from redeeming or seeking to redeem said prize (including any travel related thereto).

By entering this Give-Away, entrants agree (a) to be bound by these Official Rules and the decisions of Sponsor; (b) to be contacted by Sponsor or its agents by telephone, mail or email regarding this Give-Away; and (c) as a condition of entry, Sponsor has the right to use any winner’s first name, last name, and city and state, photograph, image, and likeness on Sponsor’s websites and in any and all publicity and advertising for Sponsor or its related entities, including but not limited to Gaytravel.com, without any further attribution, notification or compensation to entrant except where prohibited by law.By entering the Give-Away, entrant assumes sole liability and accepts all risk of loss for injuries, including personal injuries and/or damage to property, caused or claimed to be caused by participating in this Give-Away or the acceptance, possession, shipping and handling, loss, use or misuse of, or travel to or from or in connection with the Give-Away or any prize awarded.

By entering the Give-Away, entrant releases and holds harmless Sponsor and its parent companies, subsidiaries, affiliates, and the directors, officers, employees or agents of each, from any and all liability whatsoever for any claims, costs, injuries, losses or damages of any kind (including, without limitation, claims, costs, injuries, losses or damages related to personal injuries, death, damage to, loss or destruction of property, rights of publicity or privacy, defamation or portrayal in a false light) arising out of or in connection with the Give-Away, with the acceptance, possession, use, or misuse of any prize, or while traveling to or from any Give-Away or prize related activity.

Winner’s List:  The Winner’s name and home state will be available for one (1) month following the winner on the Website and the Winner’s name may also be obtained by sending a self-addressed stamped envelope, after the winner has been announced, to OO, Inc. 2658 Del Mar Heights Road, #425, Del Mar, California  92014, USA to be received by Sponsor by April 30, 2012, to  (Attention: Gay Wine Weekend Give-Away Winner’s List).

My visit began with a drive up to Downtown Napa, where there were more cafes and boutiques that I knew what to do with. The General Store was the restaurant of choice for lunch, located right in the heart of the town. Then we took a few hours to drive up through the entire Napa Valley, through the towns of Yountville, St. Helena, and Calistoga.  Along the way we soaked up the California sun and the abundance of beautiful vineyards lining the California highway. We even stopped at the Culinary Institute of America to take a tour of the immaculate grounds and well-stocked gift shop. I am not big on cooking, but after seeing what goes on in that magical place I might even consider going to culinary school.

For dinner, we chose to eat at the Rutherford Grill, which had high quality food at really reasonable prices. Afterward we strolled the streets of Downtown Napa, taking in all of the adorable shops we hoped to stop at in the morning. We got our late-night dessert fix (okay, not that late: it was only 9 p.m. but that seems to be late by Napa’s standards) at Annette’s, which had wonderful chocolates and gelato. I may not have been able to drink the wine, but cabernet-infused truffles definitely got the job done! The rest of our night was spent enjoying the lovely fireplace and cozy décor at the River Terrace Inn, our accommodation of choice. Shout-out to the concierge at the Napa Valley Welcome Center: your recommendation went over quite well!

The next morning we got up and strolled around the Oxbow Market, a big trendy warehouse-type building with various eateries and food stands. Food and drinks were abundant even at that hour of the day, so we were definitely satisfied. As if that wasn’t enough, we proceeded on to the Black Bear Diner, which is known for its huge portions and home-cooked meals. The friendly service was just icing on the cake to this delicious meal. As we concluded our Napa visit we made one last loop around the town, walking along the river, and enjoyed the beautiful weather so sporadically occurring in winter. This just goes to show that Napa Valley in the off-season is a close second to the popular harvest tourism time- possibly at half the price! The fact that we couldn’t spend money on any wine tours might have made the difference though.

XOXO, Sophie 

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Both the 21 Bar and the 21 Club were very crowded, for they are located right in the heart of Midtown Manhattan at 52nd Street in between 5th and 6th Avenue. This iconic Orient-Express restaurant offers superb cuisine, a Grand Award-winning wine list, and attentive service in a setting that is sophisticated yet fun. I didn’t even miss the opportunity to step down and check out the legendary Prohibition-era wine cellar. There is such a rich history behind 21 Club that goes beyond the gourmet food experience, which makes this restaurant that much more interesting and irresistible.

The cuisine sticks to the tried and true; 21 Classics, including the burger favored by Ari Onassis, provide the best traditional eating experience. A watering hole for celebrities, captains of industry, world leaders and dignitaries of every order, the Bar Room is also renowned for its “toy” collection of colorful sports memorabilia and corporate logo items presented as gifts to the restaurant. My choices for the night that match with Sancere White wine, were: Seared Spanish Octopus for an appetizer (USD 17) and a main course of Flax Seed-Crusted Escolar, blue prawns, baby bok choy, celeriac purée, and orange-ginger reduction by Executive Chef John Greeley. Score for presentation: 100 points.

As for dessert, my choice was an amazing selection of 3 Cheeses: Humbolt Fog Tomme, Sainte-Maure de Touraine and Bleu D’Auvergne. But I must admit that I was not able to control myself or my sweet tooth- I went on to share half of the Valencia Rice Pudding with my host. Yes, I am guilty of being a big foodie! Whether it’s for a special occasion, reunion with friends, business dinner or simply a drink at the 21 Bar, I strongly recommend 21 Club. And leave your prejudice at home, just as I should have done.

Story Via the Carlos Melia Blog

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Peter Max Lawrence continually donates works for auctions and fundraiser of various sorts, as well as volunteers his time for Visual Aid and other organizations.  His film QUEER in KANSAS just played in Frameline and will be featured at several LGBTQIQ events and festivals worldwide. He curates for several projects in the Bay Area and makes an extra effort to include LGBTQIQ artists and performers within those projects.

To get more of Peter Max Lawrence and his work, check out his website at http://www.petermaxlawrence.com or email him for studio visits upon request atpaperwasterpress@gmail.com. Stay tuned for At War at SOMArts which will be happening in February.

Favorite LGBT bar/club in San Francisco? “The Wild Side West. 424 Cortland Ave.”

Favorite thing to do in San Francisco? “Running to the top of Buena Vista Park in the morning or walk from the panhandle neighborhood to Lands End Hiking trails and Rocky Beach.”

Insider’s tip about San Francisco? “Things may seem far while in the midst of large mountainous hills but this is one of the most friendly long walk cities in the world.”

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2/16/12 – 2/20/12

Vallarta Girl 2012 reels in celebrities and world class DJs to this famous fishing village to entertain women from all around the world. Over President’s Day Weekend, the beaches, nightclubs, jungles, and rivers of Puerto Vallarta will be filled with lesbian party-goers for five days of fun in the sun and four nights under the stars. This exciting weekend features world DJs, dance parties, outdoor adventures, a booze cruise, and even celebrity hosts.

Sitges Carnival

2/16/12 – 2/22/12

Carnival has to be Sitges’ wildest party. Even though it is on in February it is still the hottest party in town! On the most popular days you will find more than 300,000 partygoers dancing on the major streets across the town. Jueves Lardero or Fat Tuesday marks the beginning of carnival with a huge celebration of local dishes and ends with the Burial of a Sardine on Ash Wednesday. There is more to Carnival than eating though- gay boys and girls from the 4 corners of the world descend on Sitges to party the week away!

Gay Mardi Gras New Orleans

2/17/12 – 2/21/12

New Orleans is the place to be this Mardi Gras season! Return to the birthplace of the American Mardi Gras celebration as the gays hit the streets in full fledged beauty and delight. A week of parties and parades happening both day and night will leave you with more than your fix of beads, booze, and boobs! Join your fellow party-goers at one of the various festivities this winter season to be sure to heat things up Southern style.

Park City Gay Ski Week

2/23/12 – 2/26/12

Park City Gay Ski Week takes place in the heart of Utah’s Wasatch Mountains, which offer some of the best ski conditions in the world: spectacular powder, sunny weather, and beautifully kept facilities. Each night parties go into the wee hours of the night, and the festivities continue with more ski and snowboarding fun each day. Top DJs keep the dance floors moving so you can decompress from the full days of hitting the slopes!

Pride Capetown

2/24/12 – 3/4/12

The ever increasing success of Pride in Cape Town draws more and more visitors to the city each year. Pride Capetown 2012 offers a host of different activities in and around the city. Events include a Pride Film Premiere, a Red Party, workshops, a pool party, Mr and Ms Cape Town Pride pageant, an interfaith service, sunset beach picnic, a book fair, a Pink Ball and so much more!

Telluride Ski Week

2/26/12 – 3/5/12

Telluride Ski Week is upon us and our skiiers are continuing to get more and more excited as opening weekend quickly approaches. Telluride gets more snow than any resort in Colorado and in the U.S.A. for that matter -- so get ready to play with all those inches. This is fun week in the works and more events will be getting added right up until you arrive to hit the slopes. It’ll be all up to you to pound the bumps during the day so that our DJs can pound the beats at night!

Winter Party Festival

2/29/12 – 3/5/12

From the first moment of the welcome reception until the moment the music stops at the final dance party, you will find there’s always something exciting to do at Winter Party Festival. An art exhibit, a shopping night, a jazz brunch, multiple cocktail receptions, six dance events in South Florida’s best nightclubs, and, of course, our world-famous Under One Sun Pool Party and Winter Party Beach Party all leave this festival full of not-to-be-missed events. Heat things up this winter at this week long party of a lifetime!

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There’s always something fabulous to do in California’s wine country, one of the most beautiful and romantic areas in the United States.  Gay and lesbian tourists are certain to be intoxicated with the Napa Sonoma region, in and out of the vineyard.  Here’s our list of the top 10 places and events you must not miss.

10. Oxbow Public Market

This unique shopping area in the heart of downtown Napa is a great place to find amazing bottles of wine, incredible food and unique goods created by locals.  Enjoy dinner and drinks at one of the posh restaurants, window shop or grab a picnic lunch to go. 

9. Napa Valley Big Gay Bingo

Anywhere you go, gay bingo is always a blast.  Over the top drag queens calling the numbers and fabulous door prizes, what’s not to love?  Local LGBT organizations team up to sponsor the event with proceeds benefiting gay and lesbian non-profits like the Trevor Project.

8. Napa Valley Film Festival

Film, food and of course, wine.  This celebration of independent filmmaking takes place in November and features more than 100 titles screened at venues across the region.

7. Valley of the Moon

This area of Sonoma Valley is where you’ll find the best and most award-winning wineries.  The Valley of the Moon was also once home to American author Jack London, who wrote “Call of the Wild” and “White Fang.”

6. Napa Guerilla Gay Bar

There isn’t much LGBT nightlife to choose from in California’s wine country, but there is definitely a strong local gay and lesbian presence.  Napa Guerilla Gay Bar is a group that turns venues “gay for a day,” sponsoring events where gay and lesbian residents and tourists can come together.

5. Hiking Trails

What better way to work off that Riesling than to stretch your legs and enjoy the great outdoors?  Go on a self-guided tour or go with a group and get the lay of the land from an expert.  No trip to Sonoma is complete without taking a moment to enjoy the natural beauty.

4. Carneros Wine Region

Known as “The Land of Pinot,” Carneros is a breathtaking wine region which runs along the northern shore of the San Francisco Bay, spanning through both Sonoma and Napa Valley.  These vineyards are where the best Pinot Noirs are produced.

3. The Big Gay Train

Hop on the famous Napa Valley Wine Train and soak up the sights and tastes of wine country.  This fabulous event, which includes a delicious five course meal and tour by the most knowledgeable gay and lesbian winemakers, happens at the end of March.

2. Gay-Owned/Friendly Wineries

If you’re going to wine country, why not experience it with family?  There are several LGBT owned and welcoming wineries to choose from, including Pride Mountain Vineyards and V Sattui Winery in St. Helena and Domaine Carneros in Napa.

1. Gay Wine Weekend

Out in the Vineyard’s hugely popular Gay Wine Weekend happens in mid-June and is a true celebration of Sonoma Valley.  There’s music, dancing, wine tasting excursions and much, much more.  Proceeds benefit Face to Face, Sonoma County AIDS Network.

Don't see your favorite wine country activity? Leave us a comment, we would love to hear about it! 

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We had a chance to catch up with the winners of this year’s giveaway and this is what they had to say…

“This really was a fantastic trip! Both my partner and I have skied for 25 years, but since we were in Aspen for a whole week, we decided to try snowboarding. After 2 days of lessons and many many falls, we really enjoyed boarding!”

What can you tell us about your host hotel?

The Limelight was a fantastic host hotel. Nothing better than soaking in a hot tub outside with the mountains around you and great looking men surrounding you! Just an absolutely beautiful hotel.

What would you tell other travelers who are thinking about visiting Aspen?

“Aspen itself was one of the most idyllic places I've been. If you like high end shopping and gallery hopping, I'd say the place is second to none! FANTASTIC restaurants! During the week we had several great meals.”

We know that AGSW is packed full of fun events but we would like to know what your favorite was?

“Favorite event? Probably the Pool Party. How can you go wrong with 500 guys in bathing suits, an open bar, fantastic music and a water park that felt like Disney World! There was lots of alcohol consumed and I'll guarantee EVERYONE had a fantastic time!"

"Also, the mountain top dance party on Friday night was fantastic! I did think the music was a bit off that night, but you can hardly go wrong with a gondola ride up and down the mountain in the dark with the lights of Aspen twinkling in the background! Great night! The best dance party was definitely at Belly Up the night before. DJ Corey Craig was on fire!”

Stay tuned for next year and hopefully we can offer another great prize to Aspen Gay Ski Week! 

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Start planning YOUR Aspen vacation now. 

Out and Equal- Out and Equal Workplace Advocates is committed to ending employment discrimination for LGBT employees. They work to protect and empower employees to be productive and successful—so they can support themselves, their families, and contribute to achieving a world free of discrimination for everyone. Out and Equal offers discussion forums, workshops, and events. http://www.outandequal.org/

National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce- The NGLCC is the business advocate and direct link between LGBT business owners, corporations, and government. The NGLCC represents the interests of more than 1.4 million LGBT businesses and entrepreneurs. The Chamber is committed to forming a broad-based coalition of LGBT owned and friendly businesses, professionals, and major corporations for the purpose of promoting economic growth and the prosperity of its members. http://www.nglcc.org/

International Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce- The IGLCC is the world’s leading international LGBT business network with members in 15 countries. The IGLCC network connects business leaders locally and worldwide. It represents millions of LGBT business owners, entrepreneurs, professionals and consumers. The IGLCC is dedicated to creating a diverse international coalition to defend the interests of the LGBT business community worldwide and to contribute to its social-economic development. The vision of the IGLCC is the advancement of diversity in the business world through initiatives that promote equality and the creation of opportunities for the members of the international LGBT business community. http://www.iglcc.org/en/

Dot429.com- dot429 is a network connecting LGBT professionals and allies online and in person. It provides an opportunity for this community to connect and expand their business networks, further their careers, stay current on the latest happenings in the LGBTA professional community, and more. 429Magazine provides exclusive articles written by industry insiders, politicians, and key LGBTA leaders. It provides members with a fresh take on current issues: the truly queer professional perspective. http://dot429.com/

Lambda Legal- Lambda Legal is the oldest and largest national legal organization whose mission is to safeguard and advance the civil rights of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender people and those with HIV. Lambda Legal is committed to practicing impact litigation, education, and policy work. They combine work in the courts with high-impact public education campaigns to help people exercise the rights they have and to build public support for equality. http://www.lambdalegal.org/

The National LGBT Bar Association- The National LGBT Bar Association is a national association of lawyers, judges and other legal professionals, law students, activists, and affiliated lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender legal organizations. The LGBT Bar promotes justice in and through the legal profession for the LGBT community in all its diversity. The LGBT Bar became an official affiliate of the American Bar Association and it now works closely with the ABA’s Section on Individual Rights and Responsibilities and its Committee on Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity. http://www.lgbtbar.org/

National Lesbian and Gay Journal Association- NLGJA is an organization of journalists, media professionals, educators and students. It works from within the news industry to foster fair and accurate coverage of LGBT issues. NLGJA serves as both a watchdog and an educator, and is widely recognized for its work informing our peers on the fair and accurate coverage of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community by the news media. http://www.nlgja.org/

National Organization of Gay and Lesbian Scientists and Technical Professionals- The NOGLSTP are scientific and technical professionals who earn their livings in various fields of math and sciences. It empowers LGBTQ individuals by providing education, advocacy, professional development, networking, and peer support.They educate all communities regarding scientific, technological, and medical concerns of the LGBTQ community. http://www.noglstp.org/

Law Enforcement Gays and Lesbians International- The LEGLI is a network for the queer community in law enforcement. It offers workshops to promote education and inclusion. An annual convention addresses the proactive communication about various issues plaguing the queer community in terms of LGBT issues in the military and law enforcement. http://www.legalinternational.org/

Association of Gay and Lesbian Psychiatrists- The AGLP is a community of psychiatrists that educates and advocates on Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender mental health issues. AGLP Strives to be a community for the personal and professional growth of all LGBT Psychiatrists. It provides access to health journals, newsletters, and seminars to promote education and awareness. http://www.aglp.org/

Gay and Lesbian Medical Association- GLMA's mission is to ensure equality in health care for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender individuals and health care providers. Over the past two decades, GLMA has tackled many initiatives and projects. Early on, GLMA focused on HIV/AIDS and the issues faced by physicians coming out at work. As the climate and culture have changed, GLMA has become a leader in public policy advocacy related to LGBT health. http://www.glma.org/

Give us your feedback about our business resources to ensure we offer our gay travelers the best in gay business networking information. Have you used any of these resources before to connect to other gay business owners in your field? Are there any unlisted resources out there that you’d like to see join the ranks of this list?

The busiest time of the week to visit this Amulet market is on Sundays when hundreds of people flock in to search for that amulet which will bring a specific kind of luck — to get the girl, to pass your exams, to keep bugs out of your rice stock, or to ward off your mother-in-law. Options for amulets are unlimited and open to each individual’s beliefs. This is the old and traditional Amulet Market; there is also a new one close to the Golden Mount, but I felt this one was more real and local because of its location in the heart of ChinaTown and next to one of the oldest shrines in the city.

What is the slight difference between an Amulet and a Talisman? Amulets (known as “par”), represent the image of a monk in the form of a small portrait or bust. Talisman (known as “kreung rang”), are any other type of holy symbols that range from classic Buddhas, elephants like Ganesh, monkeys- and even to the extreme of male penis which represents fertility and power. Known as “palad khik”, penis talismans are a common sight in Thailand: they are worn by men or are on display in homes and restaurants. I would like to offer special thanks to Douglas and Mickey at Purple Dragon Travel for assisting me with this amazing full day of touring the City of Bangkok, by the hand of local, charismatic and knowledgeable guides. This wonderful experience was truly life changing; I have my luck to show for it!

-The Carlos Melia Blog

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What makes New York City such a great LGBT destination?

“New York has so much to do from restaurants to historic attractions to theatre, you have it all.  You can also visit other places like Long Island or upstate New York.

What are some hotspots gay and lesbian travelers should check out when they are in the city?

"New York is trendy, and there is always something new and hot going on, such as a club opening or a new movie premiering. If you are looking for nightlife some of the cities hottest hang outs would be establishments like Splash, Therapy, or Boxers NYC.  If you are looking for some history visit Ty’s or Stonewall, both have been significant stomping grounds in the city for decades."

What are the top five reasons for gay travelers to visit New York City? 　　　　　　　

Reason One: “For the downtown Feel” Especially for those traveling from a rural part of the world the city is really something to behold. You can get whatever you want whenever you want it, if it tickles your fancy, it’s yours. And if at any time you need to see some green you can take a stroll amongst the lush 843 acres of Central Park.

Reason Two: “Broadway” There is always something new on Broadway yet you can still catch all the classics.

Reason Three: “Shopping” nowhere else in the U.S do you have the shopping experience you have in NYC. From 3 for $10 t-shirts on the corner to Gucci or Valentino the city holds the key to all things fashion.

Reason Four: “The dollar goes further” In particular, those who are traveling from Europe or Asia, are able to do and see much more for their money.

Reason Five: “Restaurants” NYC is home nearly 25,000 different restaurants, need we say more?

Why should gay travelers book at your property instead of other properties in the area?

“We are a true Boutique property, with a quiet environment, and a short walk or cab drive to some of the cities best. We also have a great restaurant and offer our guests the option to work out at the local Equinox Gym.”

Is there anything else you’d like to add?

“New York City is truly a year round destination. All the piers have been recently renovated, so the outdoor types can enjoy things like biking along Hudson, or rollerblading.”

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A federal appeals court in San Fran ruled that Prop 8, California’s ban on gay marriage, violates the 14th amendment. Regarding the decision, Judge Stephen Reinhardt wrote: “All that Proposition 8 accomplished was to take away from same sex-couples the right to be granted marriage licenses and thus legally to use the designation ‘marriage.’ … Proposition 8 serves no purpose, and has no effect, other than to lessen the status and human dignity of gay men and lesbians in California.” The case will likely head to the Supreme Court, according to The New York Times. While its fate in the nation’s highest court is uncertain, today’s decision does guarantee the type of progress the LGBT community is fighting for. 

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My tent was stunning, comfortable, and had a breathtaking balcony overlooking the Ruak River. Waking up each morning was a ritual of relaxation, mixed with Burmese monks chanting along with the local birds and enjoyment of the most beautiful views of the Golden Triangle’s jungle. This was rightfully followed by a walk out to the outdoor shower and bath in full sync with nature. Accommodations here are part of an all-inclusive package designed for active adults. The package includes round-trip airport transfer, meals, house wines and spirits, elephant trekking, a spa treatment, and more. Tents are named after local hill tribes, and fauna and flora and are uniquely decorated in an individual color scheme with coordinated furnishings. The whole complex was exquisitely conceived and designed by internationally renown Bill Bensley, with whom I had the honor to share my stay.

I arrived to the Camp by speed boats from Golden Triangle after a one hour transfer from Chaing Rai International Aiport. The Four Seasons also provided modern Mercedes-Benz units with charming and knowledgeable drivers. Tented Camp is not a hotel or a resort, it is a full range life experience that will linger in your mind for the rest of your life. One of the main fully included activities is the Mahout Training day with the Elephants of the Camp. Walk with them and on top of them, feed them, bathe them- it is all just unbelievable. Breakfast every morning was a delight, and not only because of the exquisite options served in full class by the staff of the resort. The company of your hosts the elephants was the best part, for they expect you to feed them as many bananas as possible at the time!

Photos Courtesy of the Four Seasons

This was my morning visit to the Elephant Camp itself, where the Mahouts live, coexist and train with the elephants on the daily basis. It is fair and necessary to mention the efforts of Four Seasons Thailand and the local Mahout community that went into creating this camp. The Camp has focused on taking the elephants out of the streets of Thailand, giving then the care and attention they need, and returning them to their natural habitat. Congratulations Four Seasons and all those involved into this project!

Someone once told me “don’t ever compete with animals or kids”, and in the case of the Four Seasons Camp, it is fully outshone by their main hosts, the elephants. But trust me, there is nothing to regret about this. The sole reason why one can enjoy this whole experience in full is the silent and behind-the-scenes flawless operation of the local staff as well as the signature comfort, style and customer service of Four Seasons.

The spa is a symbiotic experience with nature in the most incredible outdoors setting. I must say that I took a ninety minute Mahout Massage, and I only remember the therapist saying welcome and asking me to lay on the massage bed. After that I just passed out and enjoyed the full journey of traditional Thai massage and innovative rituals enhanced by the healing power of mountain botanicals and local warming spices. My tip: take your massage around sunset time to enjoy the best of the afternoon and arriving night atmosphere.

Overall, this was an unforgettable experience for those looking for luxury in every sense of the word. Please let the staff know that Carlos told you that you must try the Cobra Whiskey- but be ready for after effects! I also strongly recommend taking the half day tour of Golden Triangle and the markets using over four types of transportation and briefly crossing to Lao. Also if you are into Polo, keep an eye to their yearly Polo Tournament- on elephants of course!

-Carlos Melia Blog 

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Fair Day- February 12th

Fair Day is the ultimate way to kick off the official Mardi Gras season. Fill February 12th with a fun and relaxed day out in the park with friends, family, and pets too! Up to 70 000 people routinely show up to sit on the grass, browse the stalls, enjoy the wide range of delicacies available at food stands, and have a few drinks. Fair Day runs from 10am until 8pm, so you’ll have plenty of time to get the whole family out and about to celebrate!

Homage- February 18th, 25th, and March 10th

Join local GLBTQI musicians as they pay Homage to their queer musical heroes in this cabaret tribute to our community’s trailblazers. Top-notch young talent from Sydney’s music scene will cover KD Lang, Antony & the Johnsons, Melissa Etheridge, Ricky Martin, Ani DiFranco, Gossip, the Village People, Dusty Springfield and so many more amazing queer artists. Come together in this musical celebration to record our history, celebrate our heroes, and reflect on the songs which are etched into the queer memory bank. Every Saturday night 5 different bands will be featured at the Blackcat Lounge at the Sidetrack Theater for a different collection of tunes and talent, classic hits and few undiscovered gems.

Anything Goes- February 17th, 23rd, 26th

Wilkommen! The delightfully dark and decadent Anything Goes Cabaret returns to Sydney Mardi Gras Festival 2012. Yet again, Venus Vamp and friends bring their raunchy revue of burlesque, boylesque, drag and song, steeped in the gin soaked vestiges of Weimar Berlin. Under the fading spotlight you will meet an assortment of dapper women and dashing men. Ladies and gents, please put on your top hats, pull those stockings up and kick up your heels for the cabaret is here! Leave your troubles and inhibitions outside, and let the depravity begin! For starting at $12, anything goes at the Oxford Hotel.

Harbour ’12- February 25th

The hottest party of Sydney Mardi Gras is Harbour, located next to the Sydney Harbor in the Botanic Gardens at sunset on February 25th. This iconic setting makes for a memorable night of drinks and dancing as the sun shines down, and sets down, on its favorite Mardi Gras stars! There will also be an abundance of music, fueled by the best international DJ’s around and tons of live performances. This is a true not-to-be-missed Sydney experience that you’ll remember for the rest of your life. Tickets are on sale starting at $119, but get them soon cause they’re going like hotcakes!

Queer Thinking 2012- February 25th

Queer Thinking is a thought-provoking event that brings together some of the world’s most influential intellectuals to discuss their work, passions and communities. This event explores who we are, why we are and what we do. As entertaining as it is explorative, it challenges audiences to think about diversity, the queer experience and putting ourselves in another person’s shoes. Get tickets to this all day event starting at only $12 and get those mental gears turning to engage in the dialogue.

Mardi Gras Pool Party- February 27th

On February 27th, get wet and wild at one of Sydney’s most exclusive clubs- the Ivy Pool Bar. Either strip down and take your hot summer body poolside or relax with a cocktail on the sublime cabana lounges checking out the eye candy. Whether you want to enjoy an evening dip in the pristine pool or simply dance all night, this party is the place for you. Between the beautiful people and the Australian summer, you will definitely need an excuse to escape the heat. Indulge yourself this Sydney Mardi Gras and make a splash at the Pool Party at The Ivy, starting at $39.

Drag Races at Bondi Beach- March 2nd

On March 2nd, Sydney’s drag kings and queens emerge from the dark of the nightclubs to compete in the sunny world famous Bondi Beach. At the hilarious Drag Races, kings and queens battle it out for their chance at the ultimate crown. This year’s competition is going to be fiercer and funnier than ever, with a bigger arena and tons of over-the-top activities. Get into a frock or paint on a moustache and join the camp’s free afternoon in the sun.

Mardi Gras Parade- March 3rd

The Sydney Mardi Gras Parade was once a site for tension and persecution; it has evolved over its three-decade history into a true celebration of love and LGBT pride. People of all backgrounds and cultures come together in Sydney every Mardi Gras to strut their stuff and express themselves as members of the rainbow community, so this highlight is not to be missed. This free event will be taking place on March 3rd  from 7:45 p.m. to 10 p.m.. The Parade route begins at Oxford and Flinders Streets in Darlinghurst, New South Wales, so be sure to grab a seat in the 900+ person crowd. It has also recently been announced that music icon Kylie will be returning to Australia for Mardi Gras this year, so expect to see her among the festivities!

Mardi Gras Party- March 3rd

On March 3rd, expect 15,000 or more locals and visitors alike at this iconic dance party. Promising a Mardi Gras Party like none other before, 2012 will see the Entertainment Quarter transformed into a theme park: Mardigrasland. This crazy Mardi Gras Land promises an adventurously sexy ride through a whole night of music, dancing and electrifying acts including RuPaul, D.E. Experience, Sneaky Sound System, Chicane and Horse Meat Disco. Tickets start at $99 and are SO worth it- you’ll get to go on the trip of a lifetime!

The Laneway- March 4th

Expect crazy times in the laneway the day after the Parade and Party was a much-loved Mardi Gras tradition that is being brought back this year. To celebrate the end of Sydney Mardi Gras, brace yourself for star moments, drop-in DJs, pop-up performances and a fun atmosphere where the lane is the stage! The Laneway will have 5 different party spaces to offer, giving post-party punters the perfect place to party on. You can even relax in the sun and enjoy taking in the old school Laneway vibe. Bounce between party spots at this over-the-top event that will surely leave you begging for next year’s Mardi Gras celebration to roll around soon. Tickets for this post-party party start at $39.

For more information please visit http://www.gaytravel.com/gay-events/sydney-gay-and-lesbian-mardi-gras

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Enjoy 3 Full Days of LGBT events in Northern California's magnificent Sonoma Valley - home to some of the world's most prestigious wines and wineries. Celebrate with world class wine and culinary delights, music and dancing in a private estate vineyard, VIP Receptions, wine tasting excursions, champagne brunch and wine auction in one of the most famous luxury wine destinations in the world.

Located only 45 minutes north of San Francisco it is truly an amazingly breathtaking place to gather and show your Pride, Out In The Vineyard.

VIP Welcome Reception at El Dorado Kitchen - 3:00pm - 6:00pm

Exclusive to Gay Wine Weekend guests staying at the luxurious El Dorado Hotel. Join us at Gay Wine Weekend's Official Host Hotel for a wine reception as quests check into this luxury 27 room botique hotel on Sonoma's Historic Plaza.

Wine & Dine in Sonoma – 6:30pm

We are proud to present exclusive winemaker dinners for Gay Wine Weekend with three of wine country's most talented winemakers. Enjoy an intimate evening, dining with the winemakers themselves, who pair their wines with the culinary delights from three of Sonoma's top restaurants.

Seating is extremely limited to these intimate evenings.

Out In The Vineyard Wine Tours & Lunch 11am - 3pm

New for Gay Wine Weekend 2012 we've added three exclusive wine tasting tours to some of the best producers in the Sonoma Valley. Departing from the Sonoma Square, you'll venture to amazing winerys for intimate wine tasting and a box lunch Out In The Vineyard. Choose from one of three exclusive itineraries:

Gloria Ferrer

Nicholson Ranch  (eat lunch here)

Up Valley!   $75

Deerfield Ranch

Enkidu/Muscardini

Loxton – (eat lunch here)

Off the Beaten Path!  $85

Audelssa

B. Wise (eat lunch here)

The Winery Vista Tour - $75

Enjoy amazing wines along with spectacular vistas of our wine country at Gloria Ferrer and Nicholson Ranch Winery. 

TWILIGHT T-DANCE!

A benefit for Face to Face, Sonoma County AIDS Network

VIP Reception 5:00pm - 7:00pm/T Dance 7:00pm - 10:00pm

Our not-to-be missed Signature Event of Gay Wine Weekend! Imagine dancing into Twilight among the vines in the heart of Sonoma Valley!

THE BIG GAY WINE AUCTION & BRUNCH - 11:00AM

100% of the monies raised benefit Face to Face, Sonoma County AIDS Network

Join us to finish off the weekend at Sonoma’s beautiful, award winning Ramekins's Culinary School & Inn, located just blocks from the town square of Sonoma!

Start your perfect Sunday in Wine Country as you dine on fresh baked pastries and enjoy a scrumptious brunch. Then get ready to bid as we raise funds for Face to Face with some amazing wines, winery tours and visits up for auction.  This promises to be quite a good time as a bidding war amongst us gays could get pretty ugly…..too much fun to miss!

For tickets and more information please visit www.outinthevineyard.com 

Last weekend, I traveled to New York City. It’s a short plane ride from my house (less than a half hour), but I opted for a different form of transportation. I took the train.

When it comes to Americans and vacation transportation, one survey found that nearly 90% of us travel by car, 7.5% by plane, 2.1% by bus—and a measly 0.8% by rail. I think it’s time we reverse the trend and show some love for train transport.

Here’s why:

1. No security lines. While airlines recommend getting to the airport two hours early, Amtrak recommends just thirty. In addition, you won’t be asked to remove your shoes, throw out liquids or deal with quart-sized baggies of toiletries. It’s a lot less hassle.

2. No baggage fees. $25 checked bag fees, no more! Amtrak won’t charge you for your luggage—and there’s no extra fee if it’s heavy. While train tickets aren’t much cheaper than flying, you’ll save a bundle if you’re traveling with more than a carryon.

3. More legroom. A few extra inches can make a world of difference. And sitting on a train, you’ll definitely notice. With plenty of room to stretch and spread out, you’ll feel like you’re traveling first class.

4. It’s relaxing. While many people find traveling stressful, trains are one of the easiest ways to go. The atmosphere is always more subdued and your fellow travelers will be a lot less frazzled. It’s a great time to catch up on your favorite book or to just kick back and enjoy the scenery.

5. Fewer weather delays. Rain, sleet, snow or shine, Amtrak trains are less affected by weather conditions. While airports are closed or flights are canceled, the trains are much more reliable—especially in northern or snowy climates.

6. WiFi and plugs. I love that Amtrak trains are equipped with plugs and, more recently, free WiFi. If you have work to do, it’s easy to get things done. The WiFi can be spotty at times, but it’s a great feature-in-progress.

7. 8 inches of recline. On a tightly packed plane, you’re lucky if you get two inches of recline. On a train, you get a full eight inches. It’s magnificent—and is extremely conducive to napping.

8. Stay connected! While air travelers must power down their phones and other electronic devices, there are no such concerns with rail travel. Provided you’re not in a designated “quiet car,” you’re free to use your phone as much as you’d like. And when the battery runs low, you’ll have an electrical outlet to power it up!

9. Don’t lose your bags. Ever lose your bags flying? Welcome to the club. On Amtrak, you’re your own bag handler. Unless you forget them on the train, they’re getting off with you. There’s no chance of you connecting to Atlanta and your bags arriving at O’Hare.

10. Greener. Depending on a number of variables including the type of train and aircraft, rail travel can represent a 70% - 90% reduction in CO2 emissions. For anyone being mindful of their carbon footprint, traveling by train is significantly greener.

Of course, train travel isn’t for everyone and every trip. The destinations are limited to the tracks, but if you’re looking to travel on a route served by rail, consider giving trains another chance. I think you’ll be glad you did.

Are you a fan of train travel? Let me know about it in the comments below!

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According to Jamaica’s leading gay activists, Jamaican Lesbians face attacks such as gang rape due to rampant homophobia throughout the country. Few of these violent crimes get reported.

“In Jamaican culture women are generally expected to be quiet about harassment and abuse,” says Jamaica’s top gay activist and HIV/AIDS campaigner, Maurice Tomlinson, in an interview with TrustLaw.

Lesbians are not the only victims of such horribly violent crimes. Tomlinson reports that 70 percent of attacks brought to the attention of rights organizations between 2009 and 2011 concerned gay men.

Under Jamaican law it’s legal to persecute against any act of physical intimacy between men with a jail sentence and the possibility of 10-years of hard labor.

Tomlinson went to London this week to receive the prestigious David Kato award for gay human rights activism.

“When we find out about these cases (involving gay women), they are usually so horrible that they rise up to the level of having to be reported,” he states.

Tomlinson is a legal advisor for the rights group AIDS Free World, assisting them in forging a structured way to address homophobia throughout the country and documenting human rights crimes against LGBT people.

When he initially began recording accounts of abuses, Tomlinson was disgusted by the sheer brutality of many of these acts.

“There was one instance where a gang of four men raped a lesbian because they said she was ‘taking over all good looking women’, Tomlinson remembers.

“They cut her genitals, so she could ‘better take men’ because ‘that is why she was a lesbian’, they said.

With 82 percent of its citizens against homosexuality – according to the results of a recent survey – Jamaica is one of the most dangerous places in the world for gay people.

"The Jamaica Forum for Lesbians, All-Sexuals & Gays (J-FLAG) reported in June (2011) that 51 homophobic incidents had been reported in Jamaica between January and June 2011, representing a rise compared to the same period over 2010,” according to a report released in September 2011 by Amnesty International.

Endorsement of homophobic behavior used to come directly from the country’s political establishment. Former PM Bruce Golding was openly homophobic and stated he would never appoint an LGBT person to cabinet.

Now, some – even if feeble – signals of change are starting to emerge.

In January, the recently elected Prime Minister Portia Simpson-Miller had made some promising statements regarding lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community (LGBT).

“I think she (Simpson-Miller) genuinely does not have a problem with LGBT people and does not pry to people’s bedrooms,” Tomlinson remarks.

Nonetheless, homophobia is still rampant in almost every aspect of the Caribbean island’s society.

Citizens attend church where they listen to pastors preaching that homophobia causes diseases; then they turn on the radio to hear popular Jamaican musicians such as Buju Banton and Beenie Man using anti-gay lyrics.

Tomlinson himself has received numerous death threats.

After news of Tomlinson’s marriage to a Canadian man sparked a bought of tension in Jamaica, it was decided it would be best for him to not return home. He is waiting on Jamaican authorities to assure him it is going to be safe to return.

Article Courtesy of http://www.trust.org/trustlaw/news/jamaica-lesbians-suffer-from-under-reported-violence-rights-activist

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Can you tell us about Maui?

When people think of Hawaii, they have the image of Honolulu and Waikiki on the island of Oahu because that is the image portrayed by television and most media outlets.  Unfortunately, that is not representative of our island, Maui and our city of Kihei.  The population numbers tell all with the comparison.  Oahu has 1.3 million residents living on the island full time and is 597 square miles in size.  Maui on the other hand only has 110,000 residents and is 738 square miles in size.  So you can imagine the massive amount of untouched beauty that Maui beholds.

Kihei in Hawaiian translates to mean a woman’s shawl. The native Hawaiians named this city so to mean it is cloaked or protected because the city is in a bay formed by the West Maui Mountains to the Northwest and the Haleakala crater to the Southeast.  Additionally, the islands of Lanai, Molokini and Kahoolawe sit just off the coast and protect the bay from large waves.  As a result, this is the ideal location for the latest rage of stand-up paddle board in the morning when the waters are calm.  It's then transforms to be the ideal location for windsurfers in the afternoon when the trade winds pick up.

Kihei is on the leeward side of the island, meaning it's much more sunny than the other side.  In fact, it only rains in Kihei about 4 days out of the year and most times it's in short periods, not for the entire day.  So  our resort is ideally located where our LGBT tourists can get everything they want.  There’s enough natural beauty to soak in but enough shops, restaurants and nightlife nearby to make it not feel totally isolated.  Kihei is also just a 15 minute drive to ‘Little Beach’ at Makena, Maui’s clothing optional beach that has its own section for LGBT visitors and residents. And did we mention it's paradise here?  So you can surely expect Little Beach to be breathtakingly beautiful as well as the view from your room.

What does Maui have to offer the LGBT traveler?

Most resort destinations really have two gay communities and Maui is no different.  The local community tends to socialize in their own 'family' in private homes, informal groups or an excursion to the beach, most likely being Little Beach in Makena.  Little Beach, a 10 minute drive from the Sunseeeker, is Maui’s clothing optional beach with a gay/lesbian section. Although the local LGBT community is typically low-key, there are frequent social events and fundraisers that Sunseeker guests are welcome to attend, such as the Gay Whale Watch Tour.  The other gay group on Maui is made up of vacationing singles or couples, many of whom return to the island every year.  The scene on Maui isn't focused so much on high energy or heavy cruising but more on enjoying the incredible beauty found here while meeting new friends that sometimes last a lifetime.

Whichever group you identify with, you'll find lots of opportunities to have fun, participate in activities and mix with the locals.  Information on current local gay activities can be found online at mauigayinfo.com.  There currently is no full-time gay bar, but all establishments are gay friendly, and a several have regular gay/lesbian nights.  The LGBT population is second in size to that on Oahu.  The biggest concentration of the LGBT community is in the Kihei area of South Maui, although we are everywhere on the island!

In your opinion what are the top 5 reasons to visit your city? 

1. The breathtaking beauty of Maui "The native Hawaiians have a phrase to describe the island of Maui.  It is said ‘Maui No Ka Oi’ meaning Maui is the Best!  That long held view by the natives is shared by almost all of the tourists and visitors that have traveled through the other beautiful islands that make up the state of Hawaii."

2. Top world travelers rank this as the number one island destination in the world. "For 17 of the past 24 years, the readers of Conde Naste magazine, a well traveled group, have ranked Maui as the number one island in the world.  Not just the US but the entire world!  It's an amazing reputation that all Maui residents work very hard to achieve year after year."

3. It is an amazing place to have fun in paradise. "Where else can you go on seasonal whale watch boat rides with amazing snorkel adventures, the best water sports and just the awesome natural beauty that surrounds you?"

4. While it is paradise, you are not on a desert island. "The best part of Maui is that you can enjoy the beauty and the peace of the island while still having the best that civilization has to offer.  From Ruth Chris’ to Longhi’s to Spago’s to Mama’s Fish House, some of the world’s finest restaurants are right here.  If a cocktail on a lanai watching the sunset is your thing, there are dozens of places to take that in too.  Or if you want to have a hike to a remote waterfall that is all to yourself, we can arrange that.  It's the best of all worlds."

5. The people of Maui "Because you’ve heard it so many times, you may think it's a marketing gimmick, but the Aloha spirit is alive and extremely strong on Maui.  It means all the native Hawaiians and the other Maui residents love their lives here so much, they enjoy sharing their beautiful paradise with visitors.  This place just has an amazing spirituality about it that just rings sincere.  All of our guests just feel so special by just being here."

Can you tell our readers why they should visit  your property?

"The Maui Sunseeker LGBT Resort is the place where you can feel free to be yourself.  We work very hard to assure that our guests have pristine clean rooms with top amenities for the best vacation value you can imagine.  That’s why we have an unprecedented 40% repeat guest ratio and have been awarded the Certificate of Excellence from TripAdvisor.com."

"We want to be sure our guests don’t just come here for a tan, but instead experience the island and all she has to offer from recreation to the amazing beauty that surrounds us.  Through our complimentary concierge service, sunseekeractivities.com we provide the best activities from providers that are either gay owned, operated or friendly.  We make sure they live up to the same standard we provide from the hotel so our guests feel just as comfortable experiencing Maui with them as they do being loved and accepted in the comfort of the resort.  It's a major objective we constantly strive for."

"Additionally, we can make any travel budget work at various price points that our guests consistently return to us for.  With an Average Daily Room Rate of about $150/night and most of our rooms well appointed with full kitchens, it's a bargain that they rave about.  In fact, one reporter from another magazine/website raved that ‘the Maui Sunseeker provides Four Seasons quality of stay for budget prices’.  We are proud of our reputation and work hard to be sure every detail is attended to for our guests.  We will never disappoint our guests. We promise."

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